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清华建筑系“差生”的十年奋斗经历

导读】清华“差生”10年奋斗经历:只写事业,不写女人。作者从2004年本科毕业写到2012年,近10年的奋斗经历。反正一字一句看完后,各种反省各种彻悟。不要老去抱怨别人“天时地利人和”,做好当下,后来人或许还会羡慕嫉妒恨你。

我的故事里有三个人:我自己、我大学同宿舍的哥们、我第一个公司的直接领导。我们三个都是学建筑设计的,我哥们和我同年,都是80后,领导比我们大 5岁。讲讲这几年经历和感触。放在一起可以有个比较。我是认认真真据实写,希望给大家点启发。

先讲讲我们的现况:

我:现在辞职了,辞职前在一个地产公司做设计经理,一个月基本工资16k,月补助5K得拿发票换。年终奖看公司效益,去年十几万,今年可能很少。

我同学:自己开了个设计所,挂靠的某大院。今年自己到手估计70W。(当然这是他告诉我的)

我前领导:现在是那个公司的集团副总,年薪在7位数,关键是还有公司的股票分红。

2004年

大五准备毕业。我的成绩在年级偏后,我同学设计很好,但是高数挂科了,所以我们都悲催的没有被推研,只能找工作了。我去了一家房地产公司,当时 还不是很有名,但是拿了很多地;我同学去了一家大设计院,解决了北京户口。那时候我们工资都不高,我一个月才3.3k,季度有奖金;我同学更惨,基本工资 只有1.2K+项目分成。而且悲剧的是当时我俩都不知道能拿多少奖金。

日子过得战战兢兢。我们合伙租了一个房子,在东三环,两室一厅,1800一个月,我们一人900。不过物价也低,一个羊肉泡馍5元就有好多好多 羊肉了;8块钱的鱼香肉丝满满一盆子,我能吃两顿,午饭一顿,晚上打包一顿。北京鲜有房价过万的楼盘,潘石屹的建外soho卖1万多就让人惊为天人。

我进公司就跟着我现在的领导,当时他是设计部的部门副经理,据说是这个公司招的第一批名牌大学生。随后几年他飞速提升。我佩服他的胆识——那时建筑系学生是以进地产公司为耻,大多去设计院画图或者去规划局做公务员。他在公司没有敌手,迅速得到了老板的赏识。

在刚进公司时,我很多工作方法和工作习惯都是在他手底下养成的。比如他每周都会把要做的事情列成1234写邮件发给我们,要求我们拆成每天要做的事项,早上发给他。白天做自己的事,下班后再开会,把做完的销项,没做完的讲困难,他再给我们解决。

刚进公司的时候,他还经常请我吃饭,很详细的和我讲工作方法。这些东西对我一直很有用,甚至受益远超过大学的课程。其实社会上大量需要的都是你能把一件事有条理按时保质的完成,至于创造力和个性,那是少数达到尖端的时候才需要的。

还有一件事也是我记得很清楚。公司拿了一块地,我们做户型研究。他叫我去画几个出来,我刚毕业,一股冲劲,第二天就得意洋洋的拿了一大堆自己设 计的带三角的多边型的户型给领导看。他啥也没说,给我一本土的掉渣的深圳住宅设计全集叫我翻翻,然后他画了一个中规中矩的户型给我。后来他跟我讲:“别人 不在乎你对他们炫耀什么,而在乎你给他们的是不是他们想要的,有理想是好事,但也要面对现实。”

这年我几乎天天在加班,因为很多事情都不熟练,又不想耽误事,每天都要十点多才弄完。终于到三个月发季度奖金的时候,领导把我叫到办公室,给了 我一个信封,里面有2W的现金,我当时就傻了,老子第一次拿这么厚的钱啊。然后他告诉我他升成正经理了,所以钱由他发,原来的经理滚蛋了。

这时我设计院的同学正在每月1.2K挣扎着,为了生活费,他还拼命的给原来的老师干私活。我请他吃饭的时候,心里充满了优越感。

不过有个现象,我领导有时会叫我们一起唱歌喝酒,有一次我带上他,随后他每次必到,不管多忙,并且每次都抢着买单,甚至没钱的时候、刷信用卡。最后到了我不去他也会去的地步。

2005年

2005年是关键的一年,令我至今难忘的大事是我同学还我钱了。

经过是这样的,他每月1K2的工资,刨去房租只剩下300了,而且他还经常冲老大请人吃饭喝酒唱歌,所以钱根本就不够,而他苦逼的设计院居然到年底都没有清帐。于是他除了每天晚上蹭我饭之外,还经常管我借钱。

那个时候我经常加班,但不管多晚他都会等我回来,然后舔着脸说去吃夜宵吧,你看我一画图连时间都忘了。那段时间我们天天同出同进,以致房东一度 以为我们是基友。吃东西的时候就一把鼻涕一把泪的讲又没钱花了,然后我就会借他200、300的。但他有个好处,每次借钱都会拿本子记下来,然后到月底就 说: “我又欠你XXX了。”每月不多,但从9月上班到年底,他也欠了我1W多了。

终于过完年,他的一个项目结了。有一天他神秘兮兮的说:“我请你吃饭吧,吃好的。”我说:“你不是没钱吗?”他说:“发奖金了。我再找个银行把欠你的钱转给你。”

然后他拿出他的小本本,噼里啪啦一算,就和我去银行了。但他请我吃的所谓好的,就是在劲松桥的一个叫富丽客的自助餐厅,一个人才48块钱。当时我一边吃一边骂丫:“孙子,我借你的钱的利息都不止这点饭了!”

第二件大事是魔兽世界公测了,这导致我沉迷了好久,并损失了2W块钱的季度奖,并且损失了一次向上爬的机会,这是让我最痛心的一件事。那段时间 我每天按时下班回家下副本,玩到凌晨3点,导致工作效率直接下降。最后忍无可忍的领导把我叫到办公室,痛批我之后说:“直到现在我都不敢把一个项目设计完 整的交给你管理。”这使我痛心疾首且痛改前非。

第三件大事是我买房了。当时北京的房价微微开始冒头了,让我萌生了买房念头的,是有一次一个温州的姐姐直接摸到我们董事长办公室,半天出来了。后来公司流传开了,这个姐姐一下买了15套,这让我一下有了紧迫感。

上半年我到处看房,主要集中在东三环(公司的房当时有点远),发现国贸及以北我依然买不起了,往南过了通惠河,一看:靠,和乡下一样,但房价还没有那么悲剧,想反正就隔河相望嘛,就凑合吧。

钱一部分是我自己攒的,我在第一年除了买衣服和“供养”我同学之外,没有什么开销(大五的时候我和我女朋友分手了,她去了深圳,悲剧)。半年下来存了6W多,后来家里又凑了17W(我是啃老,很丢人),本来打算买个90多平的二室一厅。

然后我就跑去单位开收入证明,我领导也正好走过,就问:“买房还是买车啊?”我说:“买房。”他问:“多大的?”我说:“90平米吧?”他讲: “这么小以后肯定不够。”我讲:“多了我也买不起啊。”他就讲:“买大的,我让公司给你先开10W,然后从你以后的奖金里扣。”

这一扣就是1年多啊,但就因为这句话,我的房子多了30平米,这是我最最感激他的地方,因为这30平米,比我现在的1年工资还要多的多。这件事情,也成为了我妈每年一次的时候在亲戚朋友那儿必炫耀的材料。

买完房子之后,我的压力一下就大了。我和家里合计,我自己还1.5k的贷款,家里帮忙还2k多的贷款,等到交房再租出去。但关键是我没有奖金 了,而且不能失业,每个月也只能剩下2K不到。恰逢我们的房东想涨房租,我就和我同学说咱们退租吧,他说也好。然后我们在东南五环附近租了了拆迁房,开始 了我们最苦逼的一段生活。

每天早上我们得6:50起床,经过近两个小时的颠簸,到达公司。只能买两个5毛的包子做早饭,然后去公司换上西装,开始一天的工作。晚上最怕加班,末班车是22:10,要是没赶上,那就只能在公司睡觉了,后来我在公司的洗手间了备了牙刷和肥皂。

现在回想起来,买房就像场豪赌,只不过在那个时间那个地点我赌对了。好多机会都是转瞬即逝的,但我觉得这样讲又有点犯贱,过后看谁都知道是机会,但置身其中谁又能看透呢?

更加苦逼的是,公司在这段时间找香港梁志天做室内设计,而且指定要在香港做,我负责这个项目,于是经常飞香港去事务所盯图。当我怀揣着10块人 民币走在琳琅满目的打折货柜之中的时候,心中暗自涌起一种苦涩。工作顺利了不少,这感谢领导的悉心培养,很多东西知道了怎么去做,再做就是熟练的问题了。 而在这个过程中,我也渐渐发现了他受老板赏识的原因了。

一、工程刚刚开始的时候,我和他去巡查工地,工程经理也陪着。有很多东西做得很糙,然后我领导就说这里不好那里不好,说着说着,他突然拿起一个混凝土块,冲着一个完工的部分一砸,然后说:“重新做吧。”就扬长而去了,留工程经理傻愣着。

从此,工地施工的时候都知道要找我们研发部确认,施工质量好了很多。这事很快传到老板耳朵里去了,年底他就升为北京公司副总了。但这件事也埋下了很多后遗症,最终也成为我离开这里的原因之一。

二、销售部的人跟我要一个报告,但这个东西应该是他们找广告公司做的。他们找我的时候,我正在忙别的事情,就随口答应了,后来也就忘了。第二天他们没拿到东西,就找我领导投诉了。

领导下班找到我,我就很委屈的说:“这东西不该找我呀。”他问:“你答应了吗?”我说:“我随口应了一声。”他说:“既然不是你的事情以后不要随便答应,既然答应了就要做到,而且做了一定要做好。”然后我们两个一起熬夜把东西赶出来了。

第二天一早他把东西发给了销售,同时附了封邮件讲这本来不是我们部门的事情,但东西是我熬夜赶出来的,建议以后这种事情最好找广告公司做。其实职场有尔虞我诈,但有个道理,你想要立足,就得让自己可靠可信。

2006-2007年

对开发商来讲,这是鸡犬升天的两年。什么叫鸡犬升天?用一句我们老板的话讲:“你就是弄条狗来摆在售楼处,它都能把房子买出去。”

我看到了售楼处门口排起的长龙,人们彻夜排队为了一个买房号,还有人雇佣民工排队,拿到号的人好像拿到了未来,满脸洋溢着兴奋。我清楚的记得公司一个楼盘开盘15500,第一天推出的200多套房一抢而空。

晚上我们跟销售一起吃饭,销售总监说,咱们涨价吧,就涨3000好了,第二天200多套还是一抢而空。像儿戏一般的涨价,像儿戏一样的售罄。这 是地产商最暴利的两年,暴利背后是再高价拿地,再银行贷款,上市圈钱,整个市场冲入了巨量的资金,房价和打鸡血一样,离老百姓越来越远。

对我来说这是好运的两年,高额的利润,可以让公司在开发的时候,不在对成本投入斤斤计较。想做作品,这种状态最合适了。公司拿了几块好地,做酒 店,做写字楼,做商业。北京公司从单项目运作变成了北方区的总公司。对于我的领导来说,这是最好的消息,很快,他的头衔变成了北方区集团总裁。悲剧的是, 我的职位还是职员。

公司招了一个研发部经理,和政府是有点关系的,变成了闲职。冲在前头干活的还是我们原来这批人。这阶段我感觉我在扮演大内太监的角色,这让我很 不爽,但也仅此而已。因为工资涨了好多,每月工资已经有7K了,还有季度奖金,再加上2007年我跟着好多老头老太冲进了股市,加上拼命的干私活,两年下 来到年底的时候竟然存了40多W。

工作也越来越得心应手,拿地、策划、委托设计、开会汇报、报规报建、配合施工,这些事情好像机械一样的重复着。我开始越来越少的加班了,我有小 弟了。我开始把越来越多事情交给别人去干而不是挽起袖子自己干了。这时我开始理解我刚工作时,领导为什么要手把手教我干这干那。一件事也许他干只要一小 时,教会我要十个小时,但以后他就不用再花时间在这件事上了。

还有刚毕业的时候总以为自己很牛B,只有自己干才是最好的。做得时间越久越发现,社会上牛人多的是,而且人家是几年几十年干这个,设计我不是大 师,施工图我画不过设计院的,砌砖我比不过瓦工。我要做的,只是发现这些资源,用最小的成本整合起来,这才是我的价值。以前我一直为自己的学历学校引以为 傲,鄙视其他,到现在真正懂得尊重了。你越尊重别人,别人越尊重你。

但是有些事情也不可避免了。讲几个我的经历。

有次陪政府规划局的人吃饭——我十分讨厌这种饭局,说是吃饭,其实就是拼酒,我不明白这帮孙子除了喝酒还能干嘛,白酒一杯一杯的灌,头涨的像爆 了一样,一疼好几天,而且不喝不行,第二天他们就给你图纸上挑刺——席间一个GWY讲,我家新砌了个小院,就是有点空。第二天我们就挖了几万块钱的树给丫 家种上了,这种事情太多了。

公司内部的勾心斗角也多起来了。以前公司刚发展,内部气氛很好,现在部门越来越多,手续越来越繁杂。我的职位是很尴尬的,职位低,但对什么都要指手画脚了,这就很招人恨了,再加上我的领导以前那么强势,现在他升了也是红人,别人不敢对他怎么样,但我们这些人有气撒了。

举个例子,以前那个被砸的工程部经理,就拿了一张园林设计图纸要我签字,说是我发给他的,赶紧签完好进苗,我怕耽误了工期就给他签了,结果第二天全种上了老板最不喜欢的竹子,我赶紧问他,他说是你签的啊,我拿过来一看,在图纸里看了半天看见藏在黑底里的小字——X竹。

这种斗争一直持续到我从某个供应商那里得知他吃回扣的消息,然后我电话他讲:“我找到了个更便宜的货源,要不要介绍给你啊。”他回答:“好啊,不过一直供货的那个质量有保障啊。”这个电话后,我们的关系才保持了微妙的平衡状态。

该讲到我的同学了,这两年也是他转折的两年。他孜孜不倦的陪我们唱歌喝酒终于杰出了硕果。我领导先是给他一个在河北不怎么重要的售楼处设计让他 试手,那小子设计的不错。我觉得设计是讲天赋的,这和音乐、美术是一个道理,有的人天生就能做好东西,平心而论,我的设计能力就平平。

后来又陆陆续续给他楼盘做设计,而他不知道又从哪里遇到了几个老板,总之是从设计院跳出来自己单干了。那两年连格力空调都干房地产了,他的活能不多吗?后来我们也就不合租了,但每周都会去工体那儿喝酒。

另一个硕果是,他泡上了我们公司的前台。那前台是朵花啊,我觊觎很久的,被那小子抢占了先机,当然后来他们分手了。总之这小子的一切都是从喝酒 唱歌开始的。他一直也没买房,但2007年他买了辆车,宝马5,他说是业务需要。我心里在估算着这两年这小子赚了多少钱。后来我请他吃饭,是在工体*河 蟹*,不是在富丽客。

2007年我和他一起考一注,就是一级注册建筑师。一注至于我们,就好像是狗男女有了结婚证,总之很厉害,而且租出去每年能收8-10W。考试一共9门,可以考8年,这哥们巨禽兽的一次过了,我只过了7门。

2008年

2008年实在是跌宕起伏,荡气回肠啊。年初的一场大雪,搞得我差点被困在北京了。无数人抱着奥运会前中央不会让房价跌的憧憬,结果被赤裸裸的现实迎头棒喝。2008年初的关键词“次贷危机”。

2008年初公司的售楼处迎来又一批人,这次他们不排队了,这次他们脸上洋溢着被欺骗的愤怒,这次他们是来退房的,顺带手把售楼处给砸了。2008年上半年大家都恐慌了,公司上层谁也没经历过这样的事,随着各个地产龙头的降价打折,整个公司都开始降价销售了。

对于我来讲,最明显的感受,年初我去深圳出差,在华侨城办事,晚上一看行政给我订的是威尼斯人皇冠假日酒店,而以前我都是住洲际的,就打电话问,给我的回答是,公司账目有点紧。后来连皇冠也住不起了,只能住快捷假日。

年初领导又请我吃饭,然后宣布,他调回总部做公司副总,就要离开北京了。他问我去不去,我说不去(因为这时候我苦命坑爹的找到了女朋友,我已经 3年多空窗了,久旱逢甘霖,打死也要留北京)。他走后,我们的研发部经理又是个闲人,我们就成了没头的孩子。再加上楼市不景气,年初我基本上很闲的,除了 每天对着跌停的股票长吁短叹。 但找到女朋友,让我有了向上的心思。

首先是要把一级注册建筑师考了,今年这个证已经涨到8、9万一年了。为什么这么值钱,我给行业外的人解释下。设计院要干活,是要资质的,资质的 一项就是院里有多少个一级注册建筑师,有资质你才有资格出施工图,拿去给人施工,相当于营业许可。现在设计院遍地开花,但一级注册建筑师又没那么多,僧多 粥少,于是小的设计院就想出了租这个证,我每年给你9万块钱,你名义上是在我这里工作,实际上你爱干嘛干嘛。

考一注是一件很费体力的事情,有设计作图题,自己背一个画板,吭哧吭哧一画就是大半天。考试的时候,还能碰上好多许久不见的师兄师弟同学,大家就聊:“你在哪里高就啊?”“你考了多少年啦?”然后互留电话,也是很好玩的。

所幸的是,今天我把剩下的两门都过了。领证的时候,门口就被一个设计院的堵住了,他说他在西北开一个设计所,想租我的证,9万一年,租两年。我 说好吧,第二天他就给我账上打了18W,我把证给他了。后来跟我同学讲,他就怒了,说我干嘛不给他,他在凑几个证,就可以不挂靠了,自己开设计院了,我说 得了吧,你上哪儿弄去。

考完证之后很空虚,就是那种一开始绷得紧紧的,后来猛然放松的感觉。再加上楼市股市也一直是半死不活着。这段时间我和女友打的火热,老租房不是个事,我们寻思这就买套房吧。(我的一套房租出去了,8K一个月,足够还贷款还有盈余)。

那段时间市场非常差,房子基本上是随便挑。当时我们想买套大点的,就不在市里看,主看望京的楼,当时我手里已经有些钱了,再加上一注的钱,一次性就全划出去了。后来这里的房价涨到了3、4万,又是我始料未及的,可以说是狗屎运。

买完房压力就大了,我迫切需要一个月薪多一点的工作来还房贷。而且这里没领导罩着了,好多事情不好做。正好这时候有猎头找我,推荐另个小地产公司的设计经理。

当时我歇的百无聊赖,突然很怀念当年刚进公司的时候几个人天天熬夜加班,共同奋斗的日子。后来就答应去看看。他们给的薪水也合适,一个月是 1.2W,加奖金加3K津贴。月工资刚够我还房贷,月津贴用来平时生活,奖金买点金融产品,但进去的时候职位还是职员,因为我工作年限太短了。

办完离职的时候,已经差不多是年底。我领导回北京这边开会,叫我一起吃饭,还叫上了我同学。这时候我同学已经成为这个公司的御用设计师了,同时我们见面的机会也越来越少了。

在后海那边吃的,我领导在荷花市场和恭王府中间盘了个四合院,开了个私人会所式的餐馆,吃无非就是鱼翅鲍鱼这些。领导来的时候开了辆保时捷卡 宴,还挽了个娇脆欲滴的小姑娘,后来介绍的时候说是南锣鼓巷某表演学院的学生。我同学带着我们公司的前台也款款的来了,还有苦逼的我,孤零零的在瑟瑟的寒 风中等他们几个。

开始气氛有点冷,毕竟大家好久没见了,喝了几杯酒之后,才渐渐活跃起来。酒席上得主题永远就这么几个,拼酒、吹牛逼、忆苦、讲兄弟情。中国人是一个特别喜欢吹牛逼的名族,不管混的多么成功,也有强烈的炫耀的欲望。

我们领导开始从他的高中开始吹牛,就是如何如何聪明,如何如何万人迷,高考在学校数一数二之类,我就拍着他讲,我高考成绩秒杀他几条街,在省里 也是排上号的,还不是照样在他手里装了四年孙子。他说你是没赶上好时候,我说不,我是真心服你,论做事做人,你甩我几条街。后来我同学和他女朋友先回去 了,他也把他得小姑娘支走了,我们又去了朝阳公园旁的一个高级会所健身。

现在回想起来,我说真心服他是真的。我发现不管机遇怎样,成功的人都有共同的特点——他们勤奋且坚韧不拔,目的性强,善于学习,从不抱怨规则的 不公平,而是善于从不公平的规则中找到有利于自己的漏洞。他们对于成功的渴望,好像饿狼对于肉食的觊觎,他们随时肌肉绷紧永不懈怠,时机一旦成熟,一口就 把肉吞下去。

2009年

2008年一整年部分场合地点的“北京欢迎你”还余音绕梁,CCTV新楼的一把大火把我带到了2009年。那天是元宵节,我跑去帮租房的人交物业费,在楼道里亲眼目睹了这一盛况,那家伙,当时正是锣鼓喧天,鞭炮齐鸣,好像一把火炬,浓烟蔽天,不见月亮。

后来在这个楼下面用红的10米多高的铁板挡起来了,再后来这个板上碰了争做文明朝阳人的宣传画。后来在同样在东三环,CCTV楼往南的写字楼乐成中心也着了,这一次是在白天,同样的浓烟蔽日,我同样有幸见证了。2009年就与火结下了不解之缘。

中央在2008年底投入的4万亿已经初见成效,楼市先是试探性的冒冒头,接着就开始了报复性的暴涨。对,是报复性的,当年跌多狠,现在就涨多 狠。这一轮的涨价中,有个明显的特点,郊区领涨。当时通州有楼盘已经涨到3万多了,当时他打的广告是,30分钟直达CBD,你妹,三环30分钟步行CBD 的楼盘也才3万多。

这一年拱出很多地王,开发商抢地到了白热化的地步,政府赚得体钵满盆。这次的补涨给社会传达了一个很不好的信息,就是:房价是不会跌的。再加上2008年股市的崩盘,大量的资金都涌到了地产业。这已经变成了一场疯狂的饕餮盛宴。

这也意味着整个社会都在房地产及相关产业豪赌,实体经济会遭受毁灭性的打击,这些在以后会慢慢显露出来。2008年股市6000点的时候,我们楼下的扫地大妈都赶着买股票;2009年的时候,人们见面必谈房事。

2009年对我来说,在个人财务状况上也出现了质的转变。我现在月薪12K正好用来还银行的贷款,3K月补助用来应付我和女朋友的花销(女朋友 自己也挣钱,我们月消费在5K左右),这样我每月有8K的房租盈余。我不用再战战兢兢的担心哪个月还不上银行的房贷了。于是我在手机上装了个记账的软件, 记录每笔花销投资(以前我不敢记,因为经常赤字,完全没有成就感)。

我在工行开了个买黄金的账号,股票没有信心,楼市我看着都胆寒,也没实力炒,黄金还是保险的。我每个月会花6K买黄金,2K存成定存,这个习惯一直保留到现在,不要小看这些钱,积少成多,现在也成了一笔不小的资金量。

工作上也顺风顺水。刚去新公司,觉得精神状态为之一振。虽说招进去是职员,但是部门经理的职位一直是空着的,然后公司又找了两个建筑师,但是都是刚毕业的。我花了一个月熟悉了新公司的流程,就开使展开自己的工作。

我还是习惯性的每天早上梳理今天的计划,晚上下班消项;我还是不停的提醒自己,要么不答应,要答应就做,要做就做好;另外,虽然我设计能力一般般,但这几年东走西看,肚子里也存了点货货,再加上楼市大好,公司有舍得花钱在设计和材料上了,总之是大展拳脚的时候。

我甚至学会了前领导的砸工地事件,不过采取了更稳妥的方式。在工程初期的时候,做了大量的样板,我跑去工地,把不按设计做的,我没确认过的,一一拍照片记录下来。然后中午我去找大领导,说工地做了样板,您什么时候有空去指教指教,他就答应了。

然后我写邮件给工程部经理,讲大领导要去看工地,但我发现还有写瑕疵,又把拍得照片发给他。他吓得下午就和我去了工地,把施工方臭骂了一顿,然后我又一一把不好得指出来,工程部经理自己就说了,你们砸了重来吧,以后什么事要和研发多沟通。

在工作中,所有人都是打工的,谁给他发钱,他就听谁的。大老板给工程经理发钱,所以大老板的事情他就特别隆重;工程经理又给施工队批钱,所以施工队听他的。

后来大老板去看完,夸工程经理管的好,他就很感激我提醒他,以后大家相处就容易多了。而我又达到了控制项目质量和效果的目的。这就是领导教会我的,凡事不要蛮干,要利用其它人的能力和资源。

很快,我就升成了部门经理,月薪涨到了1.4W,每月4k的补助。我觉得这是我应得的,因为我一直在很尽力的保证项目的质量和效果,同时还兼顾这成本。我甚至比成本部还清楚每项分包,每种材料的价格。这得益于我砸工地之后对施工方产生了良好的控制。

这时候我同学事业也蒸蒸日上起来了,除了原公司的项目,他又发展了4、5个地产公司,都是刚起步不大的那种,但设计费不菲。他招了4个人,再找 他喝酒的时候,他披着burberry的围巾和风衣,穿着hermes的衬衣,拿着lv的公文包,香水味呛得我想咳嗽。我说装吧你,谁不知道当你你在宿舍 扣着脚打游戏的熊样。他说没办法啊,有几个客户是富婆。我说我操,真的假的啊?喝醉了我们才会放声大笑。

我常在网页新闻上看见我领导和原公司的消息,我们偶尔会发个短信聊聊。2009年底发奖金了,我拿了19W,这是最多的一次,我和女朋友去了法国,我给她买了一个卡地亚的戒指,花了7K欧。我隐隐觉得,有些事情变了。

2010年

2010年相对比较平淡,我现在回想起来,居然想不起来2010年我到底干了什么,也想不出2010年有什么标志性的事件,纠结。我突然想起我 高中很痴迷的光荣三国志,刚开始一个城,几个人,每录用一个人,每攻下几个人都要兴奋半天,打到后来就是机械化的攻城掠地,就等着看统一后的结局,反倒提 不出什么兴趣了。

我已经工作6年了,我突然想到了我的领导,他大我5岁,4年前他已经是一个大公司的北方集团总裁了。我明年能升职吗?应该没戏,我应该还是个苦逼的研发部经理。

或者我那个同学,自己一个人在外面打拼,虽然辛苦,但挣多挣少全是自己的,我还有勇气跳出去吗?我没有了,失去了稳定的工作,我就要很吃力的还 房贷,我就要告别好不容易得来的安逸的生活。人生就是这样,在刚毕业租房挤公车的日子里,我有舍得一切重来的勇气,因为我除了激情啥也没有;等到什么都有 的时候,我的激情却没了。

我突然发现我老了,最明显的事实是,每个星期我都会回母校打篮球,六年如一日;从开始的时候干拔急停跳投,到现在弓着背用体重吭哧吭哧的往里 抗,偶尔想跳一下,膝盖就会一阵酸痛。以前在同学群里振臂一呼,至少能组个队去打球,到现在我形单影只的走到一帮小孩子身边,舔着脸说:“同学,加一个 吧。”

同学聚会的主题从聊设计、聊月薪、聊前途,变成了聊结婚,聊小孩、聊政策。从以前的600块钱一桌还要AA的家常菜馆,变到了6000块钱一桌还是大家抢着埋单的高级餐厅。

记得毕业那会大家二锅头就这燕京,又哭又吐稀里哗啦,现在彬彬有礼的用嘴唇沾点红酒。我突然有一种想骂人的冲动,当装逼成为一种社会性行为的时候,我也被卷进并淹没,亢奋着并痛苦着。

我居然怀念起和规划局一起吃饭的日子,至少我们灌得茅台五粮液,每口都是货真价实的人命币,吐出来,在中国一口多少钱,在国外一口也是那么多钱;而这里2000块钱一支的所谓波尔多,在法国的酒屋里不会超过30欧。

我那个曾经的室友迷上了打高尔夫,他的理由是球友有10%的机会发展成客户。他带我去打了两次,试图把我发展成会员。但我不明白着种不流汗的所谓运动有什么令人着迷之处,难道用这么细一根棒把这么小一个球打到这么紧一个洞里,就会有一种男性征服的原始快感?

我问他这个问题,他笑了,很知趣的找了两个小妹一起吃饭,于是在这家球会的度假酒店客房里,我流着汗打完了第19洞。于是我明白了,在他的这些球友里,10%的被他发展成客户,还有10%把他发展成了客户。

我买车了,买车的好处是去饭局有借口不喝酒,感谢中央严惩酒驾,感谢高晓松;买车的坏处是我在路上的时间又多了一倍,并且我没有名正言顺的理由 不加班了。这段时间我迷上了看电影,我和我女朋友在蓝色港湾的影城办了张会员卡,下班早就会去看一场,只要时间合适,多烂得片子都看。看电影可以坐着不 动,可以连脑子都不动,我觉得我快要退化到猪的形态了。

讲工作吧,公司给我招了个应届毕业生。我终于看见了当年的我,胸有豪情万丈志,手无点滴半寸兵。于是我就用以前老大带我的方式来带他。有次我带他去考察个楼盘,到那里我就问,觉得怎么样。他滔滔不绝的讲出了这里不好那里不好,搬出了一大堆学院的理论。

我听他讲完了,就问,那又什么好的吗?他愣了半天,将不出来。我说:“那这次参观就没有意义啦,什么都不值得学。但我觉得有些节点做得很好啊,我想找图纸来看看具体是怎么弄。”

这时我想到我刚工作那会儿,一样的情景,我当时一样的回答,把项目批得体无完肤,想显示自己水平有多高。领导很生气的打断我,说了让我一辈子都 难忘的话:“我不要听你讲哪里做得不好,我要听你讲学到了什么。再烂的东西都有他的优点,你今天学一点,明天学一点,才会有提高。要不然除了骂社会,你什 么都不会,一辈子白活。看别人要看到优点,看自己要到缺点,懂不懂?”

老祖宗讲过这么两句话,我觉得很深:一句叫静坐常思己过,闲谈莫论人非。还有一句叫露巧不如藏拙。

但转念一想,我这么刻意的模仿我那个领导的行为,却永远没达到他的高度,本身就是个悲剧;而我还在这里说教,不是装逼?我的2010年就再这种悲剧装逼的氛围中度过了。

2011年 终结了

终于到今年了,我发现年代越近,记忆也越模糊,再次感叹自己老了吧,或者又在刻意忘记些什么。不过有始有终,我还是要把他写完。

上半年楼市遇到了前所未有的阻击,限购几乎打击了所有的京城地产商。但有了2008年的经验,地产业内的共识是,只要扛住资金流不断,必然等到 云开雾散的一天,再加上2009、2010屯了充足的资金,房价没有松动,但成交量少得可怜。就这样做吃山空,钱总有花完的一天,到下半年的时候,资金的 问题开始暴露了。

到后来,公司的付款都出现问题了。好在在年初公司有钱的时候,我催着把设计费都付了,要不然到了下半年的时候,估计连钱都发不出去了。做管理 的,一定要善待自己下游的合作伙伴。最好是一个项目下来,大家能做很好的朋友,朋友永远不会嫌多,即使是酒肉朋友,朋友多了,路就多了。下半年发生了一些 变故,就不多说。

2012年

反正是世界末日,我就顺带手写了吧,与主题无关。“你还相信爱情吗?”当有人这样问你的时候,怎么答?答相信说明你没经历过爱情,答不相信说明你再也不会有爱情了。所以当别人这么问我的时候,我会轻抚他的狗头,笑而不语。

写在最后,都是我自己的看法,大家姑且看之:

1、关于机会和选择

平日,看到别人的成就,我一定会感慨:“为什么他的机会这么好?为什么我就赶不上,如果我生于他那个时代,我将怎样怎样。但我没有,所以我什么 也做不了。”长此以往,我就看见一个个机会从我身边溜走,然后再一次次地发出这样的感慨。那么,我会永远在蹉跎叹息中度过,碌碌无为。

终于我发现,这种感慨不过是出于嫉妒和懦弱的感情,为自己的懒惰找一个冠冕堂皇的借口。如果我当年不是每天回去打魔兽,不是每天上班先要打开电 脑泡会儿论坛,而是把这些时间在自我提高,那我就能抓住那次房价大涨的扩张期,做到更高的职位,拿到更好的薪水。于是,机会溜走了。

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鉴于好多筒子都是在校大学生和即将进入大学的,我再唠叨两句。青春一去不再来,越来越懂得这句话。从18-28岁是黄金十年,无论智力和体力都 达到巅峰。这时候有不顾一切的拼劲,也不惧怕失败,因为还年轻,随时可以推倒重来。在这几年积累的东西,会影响你一辈子。所以千万不要恣意挥霍这几年,等 到发现青春不再的时候,空悲切。

比如我,现在回想起来,这十年里唯一亮色,只有高考。高中贪玩,成绩也一直是大起大落,直到高三急了,恶补。早上6点起床,晚上12点睡觉,买 历年东城卷、西城卷、黄冈卷,除了吃饭就是做题。其实这么多年,好多题都是大同小异,后来做到看到题就想到最后一步公式的境界。而且每次做完对答案都对, 居然有了成就感,也就没以前那么厌恶。终于高考成绩不错,语文还破天荒的考了144分,进了不错的大学。

到了大学,整个人就松懈了。泡马子、打篮球、玩暗黑、逃课、设计作业都是在要交图之前赶出来。成绩越差,越没心思学。人就是这样,不是说成绩有 多么重要,但是优秀是一种习惯,懒惰是一种惯性。人和人的差别又是就是因为每天积累差了一点点,终于有天你发现,原来我和他差了这么多。

如果离成功只有一步之遥,那谁都会咬牙坚持下来;如果忽然发现距离很远,那谁都会放弃。而关键的一咬牙,上了一个层次,有人就会春风得意,越活越成功;有人没上去,永远在苦逼中挣扎求生存。然后想,原来在当时,我们俩的距离才那么近。

大学毕业,我们系三分之一出国,三分之一推研了,剩下最差的三分之一,入社会找工作。我就是那最差的三分之一。有人说我现在也不错啊,还有现随着普通劳动者的工资越来越高,读书无用论的说法也越来越甚。

我觉得首先这是对以前大学生高高在上的一种不正常的风气的反弹,那时大学生稀缺,身价虚高,仿佛读了大学就高人一等,毫不费力得拿高工资,凭什 么?同样付出劳动,同样创造价值,就应该得到合理的收获;终于人们发现不是所有的大学生就一定比农民工干得好,有时不是抛出名校研究生卖猪肉之类的新闻, 让长期被压抑的神经在嘲笑中得到释放。

依我看,在这种浮躁的社会风气中要保持冷静。大学的意义在于他给你打开了一片天,让你看的更远,让你知道原来在这个山头之外还有一个更高的山 头。并不意味着你已经达到了那个山头,但你有了往上爬的方向,同时他给你聚集了一帮志同道合,以后可以互相扶持的社会单元。所以完全不必短视和急功近利, 人生那么长,炫耀是做给别人看的,本事是自己,好像跑马拉松,一时谁跑得快慢不重要,关键是谁跑到了最后。

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